Monday, November 30, 2009

Teamwork

Good lesson in Teamwork from an age-old fable

The Tortoise and The Hare

Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster.
They decided to settle the argument with a race.
They agreed on a route and started off the race.

The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for a some time.
Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he tought he would sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing with the race.
He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep.

The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champion.

The hare woke up and realized that he had lost the race.

The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race.

This is the version of the story that we have all grown up with.

The story continues . . .

The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some soul-searching. He realized that he had lost the race only because he had been over confident, careless and lax. If he had not taken things for granted, there is no way the tortoise could have beaten him.

So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.

This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles.

The moral of the story ?

Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady.

If you have two people in your organization, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and the reliable chap will consistently climb the organizational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap.

It is good to be slow and steady; but it is better to be fast and reliable.

But the story doesn't end here . . .

to be continued . . .

Somebody loves you . . .

If sometimes you . . .
. . . suddenly . . .
. . . think you are suffocating . . .
. . . feel trapped . . .
. . . or feel depressed . . .
. . . what do you do ?

Do you cry ?
Do you smash everything up like a brat ?
Do you get angry ?
Do you take drugs ?

Please, NO !

Even if you . . .
. . . are sad . . .
. . . and look like shit . . .
. . . feel lousy . . .
. . . if you are scared . . .
. . . or you feel really small . . .

Please do remember . . .
there is always one person there for you
who thinks you are . . .

Wonderful . . .
great . . .
and who loves you.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

W

What else

Recruitment

HOW TO RECRUIT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THE JOB?

Put about 100 bricks in some particular order in a closed room with an open window.

Then send 2 or 3 candidates in the room and close the door.

Leave them alone and come back after 6 hours and then analyze the situation.

If they are counting the bricks.
Put them in the Accounts Department.

If they are recounting them..
Put them in Auditing ..

If they have messed up the whole place with the bricks.
Put them in Engineering.

If they are arranging the bricks in some strange order.
Put them in Planning.

If they are throwing the bricks at each other.
Put them in Operations .

If they are sleeping.
Put them in Security.

If they have broken the bricks into pieces.
Put them in Information Technology.

If they are sitting idle.
Put them in Human Resources.

If they say they have tried different combinations, yet not a brick has been moved. Put them in Sales.

If they have already left for the day.
Put them in Marketing.

If they are staring out of the window.
Put them on Strategic Planning.

And then last but not least.
If they are talking to each other and not a single brick has been moved. Congratulate them and put them In Top Management

Monday, August 31, 2009

Did You Know ...

Did you know that those who appear to be very strong in heart, are real weak and most susceptible?

Did you know that those who spend their time protecting others are the ones that really need someone to protect them?

Did you know that the three most difficult things to say are:
• I love you.
• I’m sorry.
• Help me.

Did you know that those who dress in red are more confident in themselves?

Did you know that those who dress in yellow are those that enjoy their beauty?

Did you know that those who dress in black, are those who want to be unnoticed and need your help and understanding?

Did you know that when you help someone, the help is returned in two folds?

Did you know that it's easier to say what you feel in writing than saying it to someone in the face? But did you know that it has more value when you say it to their face?

Did you know that if you ask for something in faith, your wishes are granted?

Did you know that you can make your dreams come true, like falling in love, becoming rich, staying healthy, if you ask for it by faith, and if you really knew, you'd be surprised by what you could do.

But don't believe everything I tell you, until you try it for yourself, if you know someone that is in need of something that I mentioned, and you know that you can help, you'll see that it will be returned in two-fold.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Paradox

Today we have bigger houses and smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time.


We have more degrees, but less common sense;
more knowledge, but less judgment.

We have more experts, but more problems;
more medicine, but less wellness.


We spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast,
get to angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired,
read too little, watch TV too often, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too little and lie too often.


We‘ve learned how to make a living, but not a life;
we’ve added years to life, not life to years.

We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers;
wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.

We've been all the way to the moon and back,
but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbour.

We've conquered outer space, but not inner space.
We've split the atom, but not our prejudice.

We write more, but learn less; plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait;
we have higher incomes, but lower morals.

We build more computers to hold more information,
to produce more copies, but have less communication.
We are long on quantity, but short on quality.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion;
tall men and short character; steep profits and shallow relationships.

More leisure and less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition;
two incomes, but more divorce; fancier houses, but broken homes.

That’s why I propose, that as of today,
you do not keep anything for a special occasion,
because every day that you live is a special occasion.

Search for knowledge, read more,
sit on your front porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs.

Spend more time with your family and friends,
eat your favorite foods, and visit the places you love.

Life is a chain of moment of enjoyment, not only about survival.

Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume,
and use it every time you feel you want it.

Remove from your vocabulary phrases like “one of these days” and “someday”. Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “one of these days”.

Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them.
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.

Every day, every hour, and every minute is special.
And you don’t know if it will be your last.

I've learned

I've learned ....
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.


I've learned ....
That when you're in love, it shows.

I've learned ....
That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.

I've learned ....
That being kind is more important than being right.

I've learned ....
That you should never say "no" to a gift from a child.


I've learned ....
That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.

I've learned ....
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.


I've learned ....
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I've learned ....
That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I've learned ....
That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I've learned ....
That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.

I've learned ....
That money doesn't buy class.

I've learned ....
That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've learned ....
That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I've learned ....
That the God didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?


I've learned ....
That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I've learned ....
That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you
.

I've learned ....
That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I've learned ....
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I've learned ....
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I've learned ....
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've learned ....
That life is tough, but I'm tougher.

I've learned ....
That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.


I've learned ....
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I've learned ....
That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.

I've learned ....
That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I've learned ....
That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.


I've learned ....
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I've learned ....
That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

I've learned ....
That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

I've learned ....
That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

Monday, June 22, 2009

My Children

Dear son, dear daughter ...

The day when you will find that I became very old , try to have some patience to me and try to understand me.

If I get dirty by eating …
If I have some difficulty dressing … be patient !
Remember the hours that I spent to learn you any sorts of things when you were small.

If I repeat the same thing dozens of time, does not interrupt me! Listen to me!
When you were small, you kept asking me to read you the same history, evening after evening, until you fall asleep. And I made it !

If I do not wash myself any more so often under the shower, do not reprimand and do not tell me that it is a shame.
Remember how many excuses I had to invent to make you take a bath you were small.

By seeing my ignorance towards the new technologies, do not laugh of me but leave me rather the time to understand.
I taught you so many things indeed to eat well … to dress well … to behave well … how to confront the problems of the life …

If I sometimes miss memory or am not able to follow a conversation, leave me the necessary time to recollect and if I do not reach there, do not become a nervous and arrogant person because the most important for me, … it is to be with you and to be able to speak to you.

If I refuse to eat, do not force myself ! I know very well when I am hungry and when I am not hungry ...

When my poor legs will not allow me any moreto move as before …
Help me in the same way as I held your handsto learn you make your first steps.

And when one day, I shall say to you that I do not want to live any more … that I want to die, do not get angry … because one day, you will also understand !

Try to understand that at certain age, we do not really live any more. We simply survive !

One day, you will understand that in spite of all my errors, I always wanted what was best for you and thatI prepared you the ground for when you’ve grown up.

You do not have to feel sad, unfortunate or incompetentin front of my old age and of my state.You have to stay near me, try to understand what I live, to make your best as I did at your birth.

Help me to walk, help me to end my lifewith love and patience. The only way that I need to thank you for it, it is a smile and a lot of love from you.

I love you … my son, my daughter !

Your Dad, your Mum

Cup

In ancient Japan, when a new student seeks admission to study at a monastery, he is required to have an audience with the master, a sort of pre-entrance interview if you will.

One day, an intelligent student appeared before the master for such a session.
As they sat together, the young man started to impress the master with his knowledge and accomplishments.


When the master offered tea to him, he continued speaking without acknowledging the master; so absorbed was he in his own cleverness.


All of a sudden, he jumped up, reacting to the hot tea flooding over the tabletop and dripping onto his legs.

“Master!” he shouted. “The cup is overflowing!”

The Master continued pouring the tea, spilling it on to the floor. Then he replied, “So are you. Please come back when you are empty and in need of my teaching.”

Keep your mind humble and open to new ideas.
You’ll learn much more in the process, and continue to develop as a human being.


Think of your brain as the cup in the story.
If you fill it up with your ego, you’ll never get more knowledge in.

The Bank Account of Life

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400.
It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every “evening” deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.
What would you do?


Draw out every cent, of course ! ! ! !

Each of us has such a “bank”. It’s name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.
It carries over no balance.
It allows no overdraft
Each day it opens a new account for you.
Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the “tomorrow.”
You must live in the present on today’s deposits
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health,happiness, and success!
The clock is running.
Make the most of today


To realize the value of ONE YEAR ….
ask a student who failed a grade

To realize the value of ONE MONTH…..
ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby

To realize the value of ONE WEEK……
ask the editor of a weekly newspaper

To realize the value of ONE HOUR……
ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE…..
ask a person who missed the train.

To realize the value of ONE SECOND….
ask a person who just avoided an accident.

To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND…..
ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have!
And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. And remember that time waits for no one.


Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
That’s why it’s called ….
the Present!!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

4 Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives.

4th wive.
He loved the 4th wife the most. He adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

3rd wive.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

2nd wive.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

1st wive.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives,...

The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

The 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

The 1st wifein fact something we can't see, our Good Deeds that we do here and the Charity, that is given in the name and for the sake of God alone, are the real wealth/ currency that we save, will go with us & remain useful hereafter. Often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen our soul now by doing good deeds rather than to wait until we're on our death bed to lament.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day

Happy Mother's Day to all moms in the world. Especially to my mom. May you always be blessed by the Almighty.

I got these cards from my children. Thank you. Love all of you so much.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

A lesson in PERSEVERANCE

Have you ever observed the behaviour of birds in the face of adversity?
For days and days they make their nests, sometimes gathering materials brought from far away.
And when they have completed the nest and are ready to lay eggs, the weather, or the work of humans, or some animal, destroys it, and it falls to the ground, all that they have done with so much effort.

Do they stop ?

Bewildered, and leave the work ?

No way. They start over building the nest again and again
until they have eggs in the nest again.

Sometimes,and very often before the chicks are are hatched, an animal, a child, or a storm destroys the nest once again, but this time with its valuable contents.

It hurts to go back to begin again…
Even so, the birds do not ever stop, they continue to sing and build, and keep singing and building . . .

Do you sometimes get the feeling that your life, your work, your family is not what you had dreamed. Do you sometimes want to say “enough”, the effort is not worthwhile. It is all too much for me!

Are you tired of it all? Do you feel that the daily struggle is a waste of time, your trust has been betrayed, your goals not reached just as you were about to get them?

Life strikes you down sometimes, but do you go on, say a prayer, put your faith in hope, not darkness. Do not worry if you get injured in the battle, that is to be expected. Gather yourself together and rebuild your life, so that it runs well again.

No matter what happens . . . Do not shrink back, but move forward. Life is a constant challenge, but it is worthwhile to mostly accept it. And never stop singing.

Two Men in a Hospital Room

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths, only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.

He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue:

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

How to Make Life 100%

If

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

is equal to

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

then

Hard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98 %

while

Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96 %

Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54 %

Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%

Then what makes 100% ?

Is it Money ?
... NO ! ! !

M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72 %

Or is it Leadership ?
... NO ! ! !

L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89 %

Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our attitude. To go to the top, to that 100%, what we really need to go further... a bit more...

ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100 %

It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes OUR Life 100% ! ! !
Change Your Attitude . . .
And You Change Your Life ! ! !

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

I Can Read It ! Can You ?

fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too. Cna yuo raed tihs?

i cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Male or Female ?

FREEZER BAGS:

They are male, because they hold everything in, but you can see right through them.

PHOTOCOPIERS:

These are female, because once turned off; it takes a while to warm them up again.
They are an effective reproductive device if the right buttons are pushed, but can also wreak havoc if you push the wrong buttons.

TyRES:

Tyres are male, because they go bald easily and are often over inflated

HOT AIR BALLOONS:

Also a male object, because to get them to go anywhere, you have to light a fire under their butt.

SPONGES:

These are female, because they are soft, squeezable and retain water.

WEB PAGES:

Female, because they're constantly being looked at and frequently getting hit on.

TRAINS:

Definitely male, because they always use the same old lines for picking up people.

EGG TIMERS:

Egg timers are female because, over time, all the weight shifts to the bottom.

HAMMERS:

Male, because in the last 5000 years, they've hardly changed at all, and are occasionally handy to have around.

THE REMOTE CONTROL:

Female. Ha! You probably thought it would be male, but consider this: It easily gives a man pleasure, he'd be lost without it, and while he doesn't always know which buttons to push, he just keeps trying

The Banana Test

There is a very, very tall coconut tree and there are 4 animals, a Lion, a Chimpanzee, a Giraffe and a Squirrel, who pass by. They decide to compete to see who is the fastest to get a banana off the tree.

Who do you guess will win ?
Your answer will reflect your personality.
So think carefully . . . Try and answer within 30 seconds !!!
Got your answer ?
Now scroll down to see the analysis.














If your answer is:
Lion = you're a bit slow on the uptake.
Chimpanzee = you're a moron.
Giraffe = you're a complete idiot.
Squirrel = you're just hopelessly stupid.

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A COCONUT TREE DOESN'T HAVE BANANAS.
Obviously you're stressed and overworked. You should take some time off and relax ! Try again next year

Grand Pa Story + Learning Process

A hat-seller who was passing by a forest decided to take a nap under the trees, and left his basket of hats by his side. A few hours later, he woke up and realized that all his hats were gone.

He looked up and to his surprise, the tree was full of monkeys and they had taken his hats. He sat down and thought of how he could get his hats down.

While thinking he started to scratch his right arm. The next moment, the monkeys were doing the same. Next, he took down his own hat(luckily was not snatched by the monkeys), the monkeys did exactly the same too. An idea then came to him, he took his hat and threw it on the ground and the monkeys did that too. So he finally managed to get all his hats back.

Fifty years later, his grandson also became a hat-seller who have heard this monkey story from his father. One day, just like his grandfather, he passed by the same forest. It was very hot, and he took a nap under a tree and left the hats on the grass.

He woke up and suddenly realized that all his hats were taken by the monkeys on the tree. Then he remembered his grandfather' s story, he scratched his head and the monkeys did likewise. He took down his hat and fanned himself and again the monkeys did the same. Now, very convinced of his grandfather' s method, he threw his hat on the floor but to his surprise, the monkeys still held on to their hats.

Then one monkey climbed down the tree, grabbed the hat on the floor, gave him a slap and said ...... ..... ..


Guess What??

...... ..... .....

...... ......

......




"You think only you have a grandfather ?

The Living Garden

PLANT THREE ROWS OF PEAS:

1. Peace of mind
2. Peace of heart
3. Peace of soul/spirit

PLANT FIVE ROWS OF SQUASH:

1. Squash gossip
2. Squash indifference
3. Squash anger
4. Squash grumbling
5. Squash selfishness

PLANT FOUR ROWS OF LETTUCE:

1. Let-us be faithful
2. Let-us be kind
3. Let-us be patient
4. Let-us really love one another

NO GARDEN IS WITHOUT TURNIPS:

1. Turn-up for meetings
2. Turn-up for service
3. Turn-up to help one another

TO COMPLETE THE GARDEN WE MUST HAVE A THYME:

1. Thyme for each other
2. Thyme for family
3. Thyme for friends

Water freely with patience and cultivate with love.
There is much fruits in the living garden because we reap what we sow !

Friday, March 20, 2009

Common Sense

An obituary printed in the London Times:

'Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, 'Common Sense', who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:
Knowing when to come in out of the rain;
why the early bird gets the worm;
Life isn't always fair; and maybe it was my fault.


Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend
more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in charge).

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouth wash after lunch; and a teacher, fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.

Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an Aspirin to a student; but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.

Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims.

Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.

Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.

Common Sense was preceded in death,
by his parents, Truth and Trust.
His wife, Discretion,
his daughter, Responsibility,
his son, Reason.

He is survived by his 5 stepbrothers;
I Know My Rights;
It's My Culture;
I Want It Now;
Someone Else Is To Blame;
I'm A Victim.


Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If you still remember him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and do nothing.

Irish Classic

Five Englishmen in an Audi Quattro arrived at an Irish border checkpoint.
Paddy, the officer, stops them and tells them:
'It is illegal to put 5 people in a Quattro, Quattro means four'

'Quattro is just the name of the automobile,' the Englishman retorts disbelievingly.
'Look at the papers, this car is designed to carry five persons.'

'You cannot pull that one on me,' replies Paddy
'Quattro means four. You have five people in your car and you are therefore breaking the law.'

The Englishmen replies angrily, 'You idiot! Call your supervisor over I want to speak to someone with more intelligence!'
'Sorry,' responds Paddy, 'Murphy is busy with 2 guys in a Fiat Uno...'

Life is a Gift

Today before you say an unkind word:
think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food:
think of someonewho has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife:
think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Before you complain about your children:
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

Today before you complain about life:
think of someone who died too early on this earth.

Before you argue about your dirty house - someone didn't clean or sweep:
think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive:
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And whenyou are tired and complain about your job:
think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another:
remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down:
Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around

Blind Girl and a Boyfriend

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend.
He was always there for her.
She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her.
When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including herboyfriend.

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'
The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind.
The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that.
The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Know Your Customers

A disappointed salesman of Coca Cola returns from his Middle East assignment. A friend asked, "Why weren't you successful with the Arabs?" The salesman explained "When I got posted in the Middle East , I was very confident that I would make a good sales pitch as Cola is virtually unknown there. But, I had a problem I didn'! t know to speak Arabic. So, I planned to convey the message through three posters...




First poster: A man lying in the hot desert sand...totally exhausted and fainting.
Second poster: The man is drinking our Cola.
Third poster: Our man is now totally refreshed.

And then these posters were pasted all over the place
"Then that should have worked!" said the friend."
"The hell it should have! " said the salesman.
"I didn't realize that Arabs read from right to left"

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Don't waste time

A STORY WORTH READING... just sharing..

Since last night my young son has been unwell. When I got back from work this evening I decided to take him to hospital despite my exhaustion. There were many waiting; perhaps we will be delayed by more than an hour. I took my number and sat down in the waiting room. There were many faces, young and old, but all silent. Some brothers made use of the many booklets available in the waiting room.

Some of those waiting had their eyes closed, while others were looking around. Most were bored. Once in a while the long silence was broken by a nurse calling out a number. Happiness appears on the one whose turn it is, and he gets up quickly; then silence returns. A young man grabbed my attention. He was reading a pocket-sized Qur`an continuously; not raising his head even once. At first I did not think much about him. However, after one hour of waiting my casual glances turned into a deep reflection about his lifestyle and how he utilizes his time. One hour of life wasted! Instead of making benefit of that hour, it was just a boring wait. Then the call for prayer was made. We went to prayer in the hospital's Masjid. I tried to pray close to the man who was reading the Qur'an earlier in the waiting room.

After the prayer I walked with him. I informed him of how impressed I was of him and how he tries to benefit from his time. He told me that most of our time is wasted without any benefit. These are days that go from our lives without being conscious of them or regretting their waste. He said that he started carrying the pocket-sized Qur`an around when a friend encouraged him to make full use of his time. He told me that in the time other people waste he gets to read much more of the Qur`an than he gets to read either at home or in the masjid. Moreover, besides the reward of reading the Qur`an, this habit saves him from boredom and stress.

He added that he has now been waiting for one and a half hours. Then he asked, when will you find one and a half hours to read the Qur`an? I reflected; How much time do we waste? How many moments of our lives pass by, and yet we do not account for how they passed by? Indeed, how many months pass by and we do not read the Qur`an? I came to respect my companion, and I discovered that I am to stand for account and that time is not in my hand; so what am I waiting for?

My thoughts were interrupted by the nurse calling out my number; I went to the doctor. But I want to achieve something now. After I left the hospital I quickly went to the bookshop and bought a pocket-sized Qur`an. I decided to be mindful of how I spend the time.

Think Positive

This is nice - finding positive out of every negative - which we don't
always manage to do. I am thankful...

1. For the husband who snores all night, because he is at home asleep
with me and not with someone else..

2. For my teenage daughter who is complaining about doing dishes,
because that means she is at home & not on the streets.

3. For the taxes that I pay because it means that I am employed.

4. For the mess to clean after a party because it means that I have
been surrounded by friends.

5. For the clothes that fit a little too snug because it means I have
enough to eat.

6. For my shadow that watches me work because it means I am out in the
sunshine.

7. For a floor that needs mopping, and windows that need cleaning
because it means I have a home.

8. For all the complaining I hear about the government because it
means that we have freedom of speech.

9. For the parking spot I find at the far end of the parking lot
because it means I am capable of walking and that I have been blessed with transportation.

10. For the noise I have to bear from my neighbours because it means
that I can hear.

11. For the pile of laundry and ironing because it means I have
clothes to wear.

12. For weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day because it
means I have been capable of working hard.

13. For the alarm that goes off in the early morning hours because it
means that I am still alive.

I like being old

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less grey hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.

They, too, will get old.
I know I am sometimes forgetful.
But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car?

But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.

So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I feel like it).

Good info

Four things that make your body sick:-
a)Excessive talking
b)Excessive sleeping
c)Excessive eating and
d)Excessive meeting/outing with people

Four things that destroys the body:-
a)Worrying
b)Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
c)Hunger
d)Sleeping late at night

Four things that make the face looking dull and haggard:-
a)Lying
b)Being disrespectful/impudent (knowingly)
c)Baseless arguements
d)Excessive immorality (committing sins without fear)

Four things that make the face glow and shine:-
a)Piety
b)Loyalty
c)Generosity and kindness
d)Helpful to others without being asked

Childbirth at 70

With all the new technology regarding fertility recently, a 70-year-old friend of mine was able to give birth. When she was discharged from the hospital and went home, I went to visit.

'May I see the new baby?' I asked

'Not yet,' She said 'I'll make coffee and we can chat for a while first.'

Thirty minutes had passed, and I asked, 'May I see the new baby now?'

'No, not yet,' She said.

After another few minutes had elapsed, I asked again, 'May I see the baby now?'

'No, not yet,' replied my friend.

Growing very impatient, I asked, 'Well, when can I see the baby?'

'When he cries!' she told me.

'When he cries?' I demanded. 'Why do I have to wait until he CRIES?'

'BECAUSE I FORGOT WHERE I PUT HIM, O.K.?!!'

And then the fight started . . .

Case 1
My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels.
She asked, 'What's on TV?'
I said, 'Dust.'
And then the fight started...

Case 2
My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.
She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 150 in about 3 seconds.'
I bought her a scale..
And then the fight started...

Case 3
After retiring, I went to the Social Security office to apply for Social Security. The woman behind the counter asked me for my driver's license to verify my age.
I looked in my pockets and realized I had left my wallet at home.
I told the woman that I was very sorry, but I would have to go home and come back later.
The woman said, 'Unbutton your shirt'.
So I opened my shirt revealing my curly silver hair.
She said, 'That silver hair on your chest is proof enough for me' and she processed my Social Security application.
When I got home, I excitedly told my wife about my experience at the Social Security office.
She said, 'You should have dropped your pants. You might have gotten disability, too.'
And then the fight started...

Case 4
My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion,
and I kept staring at a drunken lady swigging her drink as she sat alone at a nearby table.
My wife asked, 'Do you know her?'
'Yes,' I sighed, 'She's my old girlfriend.
I understand she took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since.'
'My heavns!' says my wife, 'who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'
And then the fight started...

Case 5
I took my wife to a restaurant. The waiter, for some reason, took my order first.
"I'll have the strip steak, medium rare, please."
He said, "Aren't you worried about the mad cow?""
Nah, she can order for herself."
And then the fight started...

Case 6
A woman is standing nude, looking in the bedroom mirror.
She is not happy with what she sees and says to her husband,
'I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you to pay me a compliment.'
The husband replies, 'Your eyesight's darn near perfect.'
And then the fight started.....

Case 7
I tried to talk my wife into buying a case of drinks for $14.95.
Instead, she bought a jar of cold cream for $7.95.
I told her the drinks would make her look better at night than the cold cream.
And then the fight started....

Case 8
My wife asked me if a certain dress made her butt look big.
I told her not as much as the dress she wore yesterday.
And then the fight started.....

Case 9
A man and a woman were asleep like two innocent babies.
Suddenly, at 3 o'clock in the morning, a loud noise came from outside.
The woman, bewildered, jumped up from the bed and yelled at the man, 'My heavens! That must be my husband!'
So the man jumped out of the bed; scared and naked jumped out the window. He smashed himself on the ground, ran through a thorn bush and to his car as fast as he could go.
A few minutes later he returned and went up to the bedroom and screamed at the woman, 'I AM your husband!'
The woman yelled back, 'Yeah, then why were you running?'
And then the fight started.....

Case 10
My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed.
I turned to her and said, "Do you want to have sex?"
"No," she answered.
I then said, "Is that your final answer?"
She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying "Yes."
So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend."
And that's when the fight started...

That's the reason why communication is important ! ! !

Nice Gesture ?

One afternoon, a businessman was riding in his stretch limousine when he saw two men along the roadside eating grass.
Disturbed, he ordered his driver to stop, and he got out to investigate.

He asked one of the men, "Why are you eating grass?"
"We don't have any money for food", the poor man replied.
"We have no choice. We have to eat grass."

"Well, then, you can come with me to my house and I'll feed you", the businessman said.
"But sir, I have a wife and two children with me.
They are over there, under that tree"
"Bring them along", the businessman replied.

Turning to the other poor man he stated, "You come with us also."
The second man, in a pitiful voice then said, "But sir,I also have a wife and SIX children with me!"
"Bring them all as well", the businessman answered.

They all entered the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the stretch limousine was.
Once underway, one of the poor fellows turned to the businessman and said, "Sir, you are too kind. Thank you for taking all of us with you."

The businessman replied, "Glad to do it. You'll really love my place. The grass is almost a foot high."

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Our Life











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Enjoy It


Neurological test

This is a REAL neurological test.
Seat comfortably and feel calm

1- Find the C below. Do not use any cursor help. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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2- If you already found the C, now find the 6 below. 99999999999999999999999999999999999999999
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3- Now find the N below. It's a little more difficult.
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This is NOT a joke. If you were able to pass these 3 tests, you can cancel your annual visit to your neurologist.Your brain is great and you're far from having Alzheimer Disease. Congratulations!

The Rose

The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know.

I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.

She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?" I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze.

"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked. She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..."

"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.

"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me.

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.

Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.

Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, " We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it!

There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."

She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose." She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep. Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.